A bit about me

Hi!


My name is Amy and I'm an escort. I'm not doing this blog for business reasons, it's not here for me to advertise on. I'm not using this blog to out any clients nor am I writing this to rub my lifestyle in people's face. If anything, I'm writing this because I'm a bit of an exhibitionist. I know that people are interested in reading about this lifestyle and at the same time, perhaps I can educate someone and either steer them away from this business or perhaps give them the insight needed to make smart decisions if and when they do decide to follow this path.


For the record, I've never been raped, sexually abused, I have a good relationship with my parents and my brother and I have no known behavioral or psychological issues. I don't work for a pimp or an agency. I'm well educated as I have my MBA from the Daniels College of Business at the University of Denver and I recently left my job as a Recruitment Manager from a fairly well-known placement firm. People will either think that I'm lying or they'll be mystified as to why I would "subject" myself to this life of "sexual slavery". I'll just state that I have no reason to lie but if you choose to believe that, you can. As to why? I love sex. I always have. It's not that I was promiscuous per se, but I do enjoy meeting a new man and if things click, I didn't have a problem having sex.

Society teaches us that girls should be virginal, that sex is something dirty and that women shouldn't be overly sexual. Of course this is in stark contrast to what we see in movies, on TV and in popular music but for the most part, highly sexual women are often shown in a negative light outside of popular media. In stark contrast, it's often considered ok for a man to be highly sexual. That's part of their biology and people accept it. Even in the more reserved religious circles, on the surface male sexuality is supposed to be confined to the marriage but the man is supposed to be the sexual lead. Yet in the background, those same men have often "sown their wild oats" prior to marriage and/or have engaged in sex with multiple partners. You would be surprised at how many "devout Christian men" actually visit female sex workers.

Back in high school, I had sex with 14 different guys between my 10th grade year and graduation. By sex I mean oral or vaginal. That made me "easy" or a "whore" yet if a member of the football team had bagged 20 or 25 girls (which there were quite a few that had, they had a running game and had to show that girl's panties as proof and no, I was never part of the number), not only did the school know about it, they were put on a pedestal as being studs and conquerors. Whereas I engaged in sex with guys I liked and I enjoyed mutual satisfaction, these guys just wanted a number. I'm sure they had fun but it wasn't about the girl enjoying herself. It was about the guy scoring and getting her panties as a trophy. Thus, there is a very negative double standard upon us as a society.

Even in foreign cultures male sexuality is ok where female sexuality is taboo. In Jewish and Islamic cultures, if a man cheats on his wife or visits a prostitute or anything of that nature, he'll get lashed, fined, maybe some jail but all is soon forgiven. The woman, on the other hand, is often beat and or killed for her "crime". Sex is used as a weapon against women and women are supposed to be "pure" and non-sexual. None of this justifies or explains what I do, but I wanted to point out the double standard before people start trying to judge me. I actually have thick skin and I'm ok with the criticism. Everyone has skeletons in their closet, I'm just being honest about what I do and why.

So why do I do this? Again, I love sex. I like meeting new people. I like having my own hours. The money is very good (almost 2x what I made as a high paid recruiter and yet I'm not on my back/knees/all fours as much as people will want to think). Being able to attend school when I want (I'm going for another bachelors degree and perhaps another graduate degree after that) and then work around that is good. That and my work is fun. On average, I see two guys a day, on rare occasions I'll see three but other times I'll just see one guy for multiple hours. I can work as few as three days per week and some weeks, when I'm in the mood, I'll work 5 or 6 days. Part of that depends on who wants to see me, what I have going on and what the client wants to do.

Oddly enough, this job isn't 100% sex. It's also not dominated by trollish looking men (they do exist but they're not the majority or even a strong minority), complete perverts or brutes who hate women. I have two very close girlfriends in the industry who have been doing this for 2 and 5 years respectively. I mean close as in I've known one since middle school and we've been best friends for over 10 years and the other I've known since college and we've been close for about 6 years now. Neither one has been raped, contracted a STD, been forced to do something they didn't want and they've made some really good friends in the process.

Back to the sex thing, a lot of guys really just want female companionship. They just want to talk, get some affection in the form of a hug or kiss, eat lunch with a pretty girl, etc. Some guys just want some arm candy for an event. I won't lie, about 2/3 of the clients I see are about some form of sexual play (believe it or not, a lot of it is not about them doing things to me) but again, it's not always about sex. Am I nervous about diseases, a potential bad client, law enforcement, etc? Of course I am but the men are often times more concerned about that. They don't want their wife/girlfriend to know, they don't want to catch something and pass it on, they certainly don't want to get busted by the cops.

I suppose the next question was, how did I get into this work? I actually was approached by a pimp about 2 years ago at a dance club. He gave me the speech about making a lot of money, him taking care of me, etc. In a way, it was flattering but at the same time, it was insulting about how he approached it. Naturally I declined. My best friend had just gotten into the business as a way to get some extra cash and my other friend had been dabbling in it since our college days so it's not like this was a foreign world to me. Anywho, I would always get approached by guys at the bars and clubs but it was always the same thing, for a one night deal. A lot of these guys were involved, wanted something on the side, etc. It was always the wrong guys that came up to me too. It was a 20-something or 30-something version of the football players from high school.

Eventually, I was able to understand why my friends did this and for so long. I didn't need the money, as I had cleared more than $115k in 2006 with my 8-5 job. But the freedom was compelling as was having fun with my job. Let's face it, I get to give and receive orgasms as part of my "work". Sex for me is natural, it's fun, it gets a bad rap and I've never been one to completely conform to what society thinks is "ok". So after some extensive coaching from my friends, doing the research and even sitting in on a session or three with them...I decided to take the plunge. I worked a few nights after my normal job when I had the energy and wasn't worn down and I did the occasional weekend. It helps that I'm pretty and that I'm in great shape and have good sexual energy. I'm not conceited, I'm not stuck on myself but I know I'm attractive, I know I have a good body and that helps. But I'm not snide or inaccessible. I'm a genuine person, I'm friendly and I'm not one of those girls who looks down on a man just because he's not 6'4", 6-pack abs and is the alpha male of the group.

I was nervous about my first client but he was a good friend/client of one of the other girls (my first 5 clients were that way). I was a blubbering mess (not crying, just stuttering, clumsy, and acting like a dork) my first 2 times but then I learned to relax and focus more on the situation, get to know the guy a bit and then the rest came naturally. And yes, I slept well w/o the use of any drugs after my first night working. I still sleep well now. I don't regret this life nor what I do. Do I keep my real name and identity semi-secret? Of course I do. My parents/family wouldn't be super happy about this and I have other friends that would disapprove. But I'm still me. I'm true to me and I have no illusions about what I do. It's not a forever job and I know there are risks in this life, risks I have calculated and the fact remains, this is what I choose and want to do for the immediate future.

So that's me, this is what I do. I'm going to post at least two or three times a week about what's going on, the types of men I meet and just give everyone a window into this life. Enjoy!